My name is Taylor Stokes, now Tovah Ilona, and this year I had the honor of immersing at Mayyim Hayyim to mark my conversion to Judaism. This transformative experience was not just the culmination of my spiritual journey — it was the moment I felt truly at home in the Jewish community. In a time of tremendous loneliness, fear, and pain, finding a sense of home — of deep belonging — is not something I take for granted.
That’s why I hope you will consider making a generous gift to Mayyim Hayyim.
Growing up in a household of diverse beliefs, I long searched for a faith that resonated deeply with my values of unity and understanding. That search led me to Judaism, where I discovered a spiritual home. But as I prepared for conversion, I found myself hesitating. I imagined the process would be distant and rigid. Then I discovered Mayyim Hayyim, and everything changed.
When I first visited, I could feel the energy of warmth and belonging as I walked up to the doors. I wanted to cry. The space was unassuming yet dignified, designed with love and intention. It accelerated my decision to complete my conversion, as I knew this was where I wanted to mark my new chapter.
Like Esther in the Purim story, I found strength in claiming my identity. Esther stood up for her people with courage, embracing her role in the Jewish story even in the face of danger. Her bravery inspires me to see my own journey as an expression of resilience and faith.
My immersion at Mayyim Hayyim represented more than fulfilling a ritual; it was my commitment to live a life of purpose, connection, and integrity in a deeply broken world.
With my family by my side, including my daughter and grandson, who are not Jewish, I immersed in the mikveh waters with gratitude and clarity. Mayyim Hayyim welcomed us all with love and care. My family felt the warmth of this community as deeply as I did — a testament to how this sacred space embraces everyone who enters.
There’s a phrase that means a great deal to me: Kol ha’olam kulo, gesher tsar me’od. “The whole world is a very narrow bridge, and the most important thing is to not be afraid.” Mayyim Hayyim is the bridge that helped me cross into my new life with courage and faith. I hope you’ll help others cross their own bridges by supporting this extraordinary community.
Wishing you and your loved ones a light-filled Chanukah. Chag Urim Sameach!
Taylor Stokes / Tovah Ilona
P.S. Your gift makes moments like mine possible. Let’s ensure that Mayyim Hayyim continues to be a place of transformation, comfort, and connection for all. Thank you for your support.